Wednesday, April 25, 2012

Bedtime Stories


I'm beat!  And it's the kids who are doing the beating.  Hahaha.  The reason why I'm so wiped out this morning revolves (as usual) around lack of sleep.  Let me walk you through a typical bedtime routine in our house.  In theory the two little ones go down at 6:30 and the older ones go to bed at 7 without a fight.  And then they all stay in bed, go to sleep, and STAY asleep the whole night long.  That my friends is what we call a FAIRYTALE.  Hahaha. 



In actuality what ends up happening is highly dependent on the 2 year old.  Because Jane is the one who has been beating me to a bloody pulp these days.  Pretty much ever since Jane stopped sucking her thumb over a year ago she's been a terrible sleeper.  But now that she's decided she wants to give up her naps she's been even worse.  If she takes a nap she seriously won't fall asleep until 10 or 11 o'clock at night and sometimes it's midnight before she finally succumbs to the sandman.  If she doesn't nap, she WILL go down at 6:30, but then she's a melting down mess of a monster from about 3 o'clock on.  And she will fall asleep in the car if we drive anywhere during that critical time.  And then she won't go to bed until midnight.  It's a delicate catch-22 we're navigating here.  Especially because the other problem we have with the no-nap scenario is that 9 times out of 10, she will wake up about 3 or 4 hours after falling asleep and then it's party time for a couple of hours until she goes back to bed.  And even if all the stars align and we manage to get her in bed at a decent time with successful results she still likes to wake up in the middle of the night and climb into our bed.  Like last night when she was up at midnight and then again at 4 and then up for good around quarter to 7 this morning.  But hey -- at least it was just Jane this time.  Alex usually likes to throw his 2 cents in around 3 o'clock as well.  Hahahaha.  Cute little lover boy is not always this cute in the wee hours of the morning.

{Please ignore how filthy his sheets are -- it's on my to do list.}


As for the older kids, well let's just say that ever since I started promising 20 peace points apiece for going to sleep at bedtime -- or at least for not BOTHERING us at bedtime -- they have been doing a little bit better.  Do we still have to go up there and break up a few fights every night (especially between the bunk-bed-sharing Ethan and Sophie)?  Absolutely.  And do we still have kids coming down at various times saying they're hungry, or thirsty, or not tired?  Yes.  BUT, things have gotten a little better.  And that's a good thing!

In other news, we've got a busy week as usual.  Here's the quick run-down before I have to get these kids off to school.  I've got visiting teaching this afternoon, Cub Scouts after school, a digital Film Festival tomorrow evening featuring something that Ethan has done (?) or is in (?) -- I'm not really sure of all the details, and then on Saturday my lil sis Laura (aka MUFFY!) is coming in town for a week. 

He's really excited about this "VIP" badge.


Betwixt and between all of that I've got some regular stuff to do -- like trying to keep the house clean, keeping up with the laundry, and actually making some meals for my family.  With any spare time I have I'll be working on a few OTHER things that I'm desperately trying to finish up -- namely: our anniversary is coming up on Monday and since it's the big 1-0, I'm going all out and there are still a few projects I have in the works.  Also, my sister Emily and I are collaborating on a surprise for a good friend of ours, and last but not least I've been asked to speak in church on Sunday.  The topic?  Keeping the Sabbath Day Holy.  Hmmmm.  Perhaps a review of our current activities are in order.  I'll keep you posted on how that pans out...



12 comments:

Scott Dodds said...

I have to say, I love reading your blog and the adventures you guys have! I love how you don't sugar coat things and I love how you share what's really going on. Good for you! You're awesome. Good luck with all the sleeping issues. Makes me tired thinking about them :-)

Scott Dodds said...

p.s. Definitely not Scott. Forgot he was signed in. Oops.

Poppy said...

I feel your pain! We are transitioning away from naps for James for the same reasons. He doesn't even sleep in his bed, he sleeps on the floor beside my bed and then he wakes me up several times crying in his sleep. Then we have Milly who is still getting up at least 2 times a night. Between the 2, I get about 2 hours at a time. I'm exhausted. I remember doing this with my 1st 2, but I'm older this time and it is hard. The only thing that keeps me going is that this is the last of it and it has to get better at some point...right? I love your posts. Thanks for being real it makes all of us feel not so alone!

kim said...

Hate the nap transitions. And I'm so with you on the lack of sleep (and Poppy, I agree, it is SO much harder this time then it was 5 years ago, although knowing this is it, I am trying to be patient).

Hope we can all get some sleep soon.

Sarah said...

oh Jess, night-waking kids make life so miserable!! Eleanor was like that about the first 2 months after we moved. I REALLY REALLY hope Jane gives you a break soon!!

Jessica said...

i have to admit, it's really nice to know that others can commiserate with me on the whole motherhood and lack of sleep thing. i guess misery really does love company. :)

and karissa -- i figured it wasn't scott. in my experience grown men don't tend to use emoticons. hahahaha. :) have fun on your trip out to utah!

Emily C said...

jess, i wish you would have sent me YOUR stuff, and i would have done the bulk, and just saved the hand quilting for you! ugh. sorry!

and the whole kid waking up in the night is a nightMARE! geesh, puts me in a bad mood for at least half of a day. but sounds like jane is an AWFUL sleeper. I thought it was just a phase. but seems like that phase is lasting ALOT ALOT longer... :-(

Jessica said...

oh don't even worry about the quilt! that will be fun when i start to put it together.

i'm just really tired today -- most days i'm able to function pretty well, but today everything has just caught up with me!

rebecca and eric said...

oh the joys of the no-nap vs nap Catch-22!! Sorry girl. So excited you got to go to the temple open house! also I read the post with the letter from your mom- i love her. what a crazy life with teenage kids we will have! love ya. good luck.

summer said...

I don't know that I've ever commented - but love to catch up on your family...your writing it great, as others stated I love how real it is :) Anyway, just wondering if you have ever considered having Jane get an adjustment with a Chiropractor? I've known two people in the past few months that took their toddlers in to see a Chiropractor due to non-sleeping issues and both said that it was amazing the difference they noticed...one was immediate that her daughter slept through starting that night!

Just thought I'd mention as I know that I really dislike being a tired Mama and feel your pain in getting through a day with hardly any sleep!

Good luck!

Craig Foster said...

I'll be glad to give your little Jane an adjustment ;) I'm going to Chiropractor School right now, emphasizing in child theraphy. The first adjustment is on the house. That's so exciting that your sister is coming to visit this week. I haven't seen her in ages. Give her squeezes for me :P

Jessica said...

sure, Freddie -- I'll give muffy a big squeeze from you. hahahaha. why are you so ridiculous? hahaha. thanks for making me laugh out loud this morning. how come you never call anymore???