Monday, September 07, 2009

Jane, Jane, and more Jane

It's been a little over a week now, and I don't want to jinx anything, but so far Jane is a jewel. She's already a much better sleeper and eater than Sophie EVER was, and I'm keeping my fingers crossed that things will not make a change for the worse!

To finish off the birth story, I ended up staying in the hospital for a mere 24 hours, and to be honest I've never felt more rushed out of a place than I did there. When the doctor asked if I wanted to check out the next morning, it took only about a minute for me to decide that going home would be a much better option than having to thrust our 3 children on someone else for another night, or the alternative of spending another night at the hospital by myself without Scott there to help me.

Since we've been home, the kids have been adjusting fairly well to the new baby. I should clarify here that while they are all fine with the baby, they are not exactly fine with each other. The fighting and fussing between them has escalated quite a bit over the course of this week, but hopefully things will smooth out here in a bit. Thankfully none of them have exhibited any jealousy or sibling rivalry with our new addition, so I should definitely just count my blessings!

Here's how things have played out with Jane: Ethan loves the baby, but is a bit too rough with her -- not to mention that he doesn't quite get the concept that he shouldn't try to talk to and play with Jane when she is SLEEPING. Grace has actually been the most consistently interested in helping me take care of her, and lets me know on an almost hourly basis that she has washed her hands with soap and water and used the hand sanitizer so can she please touch the baby now? She actually has quite the magic touch with Jane, and we've taken to calling her the Baby Whisperer because almost every time she holds the baby, Jane quiets right down and becomes very "calm" (Grace's word, not mine). As for Sophie, she really adores Jane but her form of adoration comes in the form of mostly ignoring her and doing her own thing -- which to be honest is probably more helpful to me than if she were constantly hovering over her.

The Baby Whisperer


Unfortunately the honeymoon phase is coming to an end. Scott was lucky enough to be able to take off all of last week from work and all I have to say is that it's too bad he's nowhere near retirement age, because I could definitely get used to having him home every day. However, tomorrow is back to reality -- although, it's not quite the REAL reality just yet. Thankfully, my sister has so graciously taken the girlie bugs off my hands for the week thus easing my transition into the world of caring for all my children on my own during the day. The girls were ecstatic to go, but I'm curious to see if they last a whole week. Especially since Ethan was already missing them by bedtime on the first night they were gone. He was literally crying and saying he wanted Sophie to come home the next day and although he didn't mention wanting Grace to come home, too, I'm pretty sure the sentiment was implied. He seemed a little better after calling the girls to say goodnight, so hopefully we'll all survive the week!

Ready for an adventure.


And now to end this epistle, here are some more pictures of Jane from her first week of life. I have to say it is so nice to be able to ENJOY the newborn phase this time around! Sophie's newborn phase was merely ENDURED, so this has been a nice change of pace...





This is Jane's sleeping pose -- she does not like having her arms swaddled down -- that one little fist always makes its way under her chin in a "Thinker" pose.



She really seems to like the swing, and here's a picture on the second day home where Sophie and Grace gave her some "comfort" items which hold special places in their little hearts. Sophie gave her a pacifier -- which she WON'T take at all, and Grace gave her a junk -- which of course she's too little to play with. But it's the thought that counts, right?









One of my favorite pictures of her -- she just looks so peaceful.



Her first official photo shoot for mom...






Cute little monkey face.




And here's the most recent picture of Jane awake. Consequently, are blocked tear ducts common with ALL babies? Or just MY babies. Ethan, Grace, and Sophie each had the same goopy-eyed problem that Jane is now sporting.


Well, that's all folks. Hope the pictures satisfy my family members. Jane is waking up now, so I guess it's time for her to eat! Until next time...

26 comments:

Tami said...

she is just precious! i can't get over her dark coloring... think it will stay that way?

Poppy said...

I agree...her dark coloring is just throwing me off! She is adorable. It will get easier!

Elizabeth said...

She is adorable!
I understand enduring the newborn face so well! I am glad you got a break with this one.

Fellars Family said...

Glad to hear things are going well. I hope she continues to be a sweetheart for you.

KMDuff said...

Love love the lilac dress! Such a cutie! Glad you are enjoying her! Yay!

Emily C said...

she is the most beautiful baby i've ever seen!!!!

Becky J. said...

She is beautiful! But, um, could she look any less like her siblings? Did they all have that dark hair when they were born, too, or is this just Jane? She's so so sweet!

Jamie said...

I am loving the tons of dark hair!! So cute!! Yes, please tell us if all your kids looked like this because she looks so different from them now!

Jessica said...

it's funny, because ALL the kids were actually born with dark hair that eventually fell out, and ALL of my kids have had varying degrees of jaundice as newborns giving them that oh-so-tan-glow. i think jane's hair is definitely the most abundant and the blackest, but not by too much.

i'm in the process of hunting down newborn pics from the other 3 to put in a future post, just for comparison sake.

Erin said...

I love every single picture that you posted, Jess! Jane is beautiful. Good luck this week!

Anna said...

She really is beautiful, Jessica. And that dark hair is so surprising!

Speaking of the name Jane, I just finished Jane Eyre (my first time reading it) last night. Isn't that one of your very favorites? I love love loved it.

lrbodine said...

It's good that I'll have my own little baby soon because these pictures of adorable Jane are getting to me! She is so dark haired and dark skinned and cute. And I'm glad she's been a great baby so far! You earned it. And I'm hoping Ellie takes after Sophie in regards to the baby (especially since Sophie and Ellie are so close in age... I can hope, right?)

kim said...

She is absolutely beautiful! Great pictures. Hope the other kids miss each other just enough to be really really nice when they are all together again.

Heidi said...

Jane is a beauty! I'm so glad she's here and that she's a good baby thus far. Good luck adjusting to 4 babies, and call me sometime so we can compare notes. Or I'll call you when I don't feel overwhelmed anymore...

Beignet said...

All four kiddies are absolutely adorable. I can't wait for the upcoming stories from the "mother of four". :)

susie harty said...

I was thinking, Jane looks older than a week old but then I saw her newborn stats. She was a good size baby! Congratulations! I am curious to see the comparison pictures of your other kids and their dark hair. My kids have dark hair when they are born and then it gets lighter as they get older.

mama said...

Great update. You had dark hair also as a baby, just not that thick. I think you might just have a little cajun on your hands...pinto bean instead of a white bean! It'll be fun to watch her grow and change. She is beautiful and looks like a baby doll. I wish I could cuddle with her right now!

p.s. Has Grace also become a 'junk whisperer'???

susi and adam said...

Jane is soooo beautiful. I know I saw your other babies when they were tiny and she looks so different to me!!!! Wish I could snuggle her!

Emily Widdison said...

Are you sure she is yours? She is so dark! I love it! She is absolutely beautiful. My boys new born days were endured also...but Ruby we could actually enjoy! I love it when they are good babies!

Nathan said...

I worked with Scott ages ago and just wanted to say a quick congratulations!

She is beautiful, and I'm glad she arrived safely.

Brooke said...

Have you ever seen Big Business? Just wondering:) She is beautiful and I LOVE that hair!

Erica said...

Congratulations! She is so beautiful. I can't believe all of her dark hair.

Tasha said...

Congrats! I can't believe how olive toned she is compared to your other kiddos! Wish I were there to help out or make a meal!

M. Wright said...

Congratulations! She is one of the cutest babies I have seen, no exageration! She is SO adorable. I love her dark hair. I will always hope for one of my babies to have dark hair like that, but with the way its going that probably won't happen. Hope you have an easy transition, I hate going back to reality.

Sunnie said...

such a cute baby! what a blessing to have your sis take the kids. i think that would be the most helpful. i hope it worked out great and that you are surviving, or at least hanging on by a thread like we are:)

Lisa said...

She is darling. I think she looks a lot like you, except for the dark hair. Wasn't Ethan's hair dark when he was born to? Congrats!