Wednesday, March 23, 2011

Popcorn Popping on the Apricot Tree

So last week was Spring Break, and while the first couple of days just about broke me, on the third day we finally hit our stride! Unfortunately this was the last truly Springy day of our "Break."

(a tree in our front yard -- it really does look like popcorn popping, don't you think??)




Since I had seen that the weather was going to take a turn for the worse, I decided to seize the day and check out the Botanical Gardens with the kiddies for a little field trip of sorts. Which was awesome because it was totally and completely free! (As long as you don't factor in the money I was forced to spend at the gift shop on the way out because apparently I promised the kids if they were good they could pick something out). The day was GORGEOUS, the grounds BEAUTIFUL, and the kids were FAR more receptive to the outing than I ever could have imagined. Especially considering there wasn't really anything for them to do there except for looking at trees and flowers. But I'll take it!








Sophie has such an interesting fashion sense. And just so know -- that hat she's wearing was initially brought as a handbag of sorts for her to hold her snack and juice box in. Hahahahaha. Good thing it came in handy as a HAT to shield her eyes from the sun.





And that's about it. We actually spent a couple of hours wandering around the Gardens before heading for home (via the Gift Shop, of course). And then I decided to continue my streak of being a "fun" mom and grabbed McDonald's for the kids for lunch. I think this day was possibly the best out of the week. Like I said, days 1 and 2 were rocky, and then I foolishly rendered myself incapacitated that very night by falling asleep in my contacts. Aaaaaahhhhh! My enforced glasses wearing and the 30 degree temperature drop overnight -- replete with SNOW -- pretty much ruined the last couple of days of Spring Break. Oh well.



And now for some random pictures and stories:

Up first -- Jane. She is so hilarious. She loves to try and be like the big kids and one of her favorite things to do is put on Sophie's back pack and pretend that she is going to school. Hahahaha. It is so hilarious to watch her wave goodbye and try to get out the door so she can make it to the bus -- which is one word she can actually (kind of) say. Here she is even more decked out when she found Grace's hat and coat by the fireplace one night. How adorable is that little face?? I just love her.




And then there's the water boy. We've been experiencing a LOT of issues with number one son. He's very spirited for one thing, but after a report card conference with his teacher a few weeks I ago, I came to a startling clear conclusion. After seeing his teacher's complete shock when I mentioned some of the issues we were having at home, and hearing her rave about how well-behaved he is at school and what a model child he is, I came to the realization that Ethan must be so worn out by the end of the day after being on his best, most perfect behavior that he can't help his deconstruction at the end of the day once he's home. All those suppressed impulses and frustrations and emotions just come hurtling out of him as soon as he is back in familiar company.

After hearing Ethan and Grace talk a lot about "sensory breaks" that some kids at school need to take, I decided that perhaps taking a little break of his own would help Ethan to stay out of the red zone once he's home. After talking it over with him (and doing a little brushing up on my "Raising Your Spirited Child" book), we decided on some things he could do to help diffuse his intensity and frustrations whenever he starts to feel himself melt down. Play dough was one option, but the funniest one to me was the following:





Playing with water. Never mind that it was freezing outside on the back porch -- this is how Ethan needed to unwind. Hahaha. After gearing myself up for a huge battle when he first begged to take the water outside, I decided it just wasn't worth it. I could let him melt down and not let the matter rest for HOURS on end, OR I could simply cave in and let him do what he wanted to do. In the end I figured if he didn't care about getting wet and cold, why should I?

He literally went from major freak out to happy-as-a-clam in a matter of minutes as he filled container after container with hot water and then brought them outside to play with. I have no idea what he was even doing, but when I happened to glance outside and saw the above picture I literally laughed out loud watching him swirl the steam all around with his hands. Hilarious, I tell you. Hilarious.


At the beginning of the month I made my first ever attempt at a King Cake for Mardi Gras. This one is modeled after my very favorite kind of king cake from Mackenzie's Bakery which has been closed for a few years now. :( After doing a lot of googling I determined that this particular kind of cake was made with a brioche bread for the base. I found a recipe online and whipped it up. I do have to say that making the brioche is far too time-consuming and complicated to attempt making more than once a year. BUT, the taste was almost spot-on for the King Cake. Unfortunately, all that beautiful sugar on top didn't really stick very well as I was cutting the pieces, so I'm not sure how they used to do that at the bakery. Perhaps by next year I'll be up for giving it another go and figuring out how to make it work.



And finally -- just so we're filled in on ALL members of the family. Grace is currently on Round 3 of strep throat this year. So, if it doesn't get cleared up this time around, the doctor says he'll order a tonsillectomy. In my opinion, the sooner those things are out the better. They're HUGE and I've always been kind of worried about her having sleep apnea or something.

Also, Sophie is currently in the process of being screened by the school district's special services for speech therapy. Apparently, when I took Sophie in for her 4 year check-up the doctor was a bit concerned -- for her age, he said, a complete stranger should be able to understand at least 90% of what she is saying. After taking her to an initial evaluation at the Early Childhood Center for the school district (which could have been a whole separate post on its own -- what with me scheduling it right during nap time and then not finding a sitter for Jane and foolishly thinking she'd fall asleep in the car on the way there and then I could transfer her to her stroller for the duration of the evaluation) the results were as follows: "She's a delightful girl," the lady wrote on her report. However, the number of sound substitutions she makes while speaking renders her almost "unintelligible" at times. Doesn't that make her sound like a feral animal or something? Hahahaha. I'm clearly only joking about this because I am not at all concerned with her speech at this time. Does she have many a speech impediment? Absolutely. And she sounds like a chipmunk when she speaks, to boot. BUT, if she qualifies for (free) speech therapy through the school district -- and the evaluator apparently can't see why they WOULDN'T qualify her -- then I guess we'll take it.

And finally we'll end with baby Alex(ander). I had my REAL ultrasound this Monday and it's still a boy!!! So that's good. He also appears to be a thumb-sucker, which in my book is GREAT! I will take it! His pregnancy so far reminds me SO much of Grace's that I wasn't that surprised when I saw him trying to suck his thumb and play with his ears on the screen. Grace was the EASIEST baby as a result of those habits and I'm REALLY hoping Alex is the same. Looks-wise, it was really funny because based on his 3D ultrasound pic he reminds me exactly of how Sophie looked in HER 3D pic. I am interested to see what he really looks like once he's here.

And that's that. This isn't much of a post, but there really hasn't been much going on. Just the same old, same old around here. I was going to close with an "After" picture of the tree in our front yard all covered in snow, but blogger is not letting me upload any pictures at all. And that's too bad because I had a really hilarious one of Sophie in one of her get-ups. Oh well. Maybe next time.

11 comments:

kim said...

Love that Ethan's sensory breaks are working. I think I need to try that--I keep encouraging Savannah to take a break when she gets home because we have some of the same school-to-home transition issues, but I haven't really offered her fun "break time" activities, so she hasn't been very receptive--and I forget to focus on sensory stuff, just keep offering books to read and somewhere to be alone. Maybe that will help us because other than the days that we just stay outside, our afternoons start out so rough! I know its just hard for them to hold it all in all day long, I just don't like receiving the brunt of those pent-up emotions.

Emily C said...

where to begin? i think i have to begin with waterboy- yeah.. i was laughing out loud too! hopefully he isn't making water "bombs" out there. hahahaha
the popcorn tree looks so springy and beautiful- i'm soooooooo ready for some spring blossoms here. at least the grass has turned mostly green. we have a gorgeous cherry tree that looks similar to yours and i cant wait for it to bloom.
you are such a fun mom taking the kids on a field trip- i wish we lived close by and could have joined.
thats hilarious that sophie carried her treats in her hat.

and the KING CAKE!!!! that looks sooo much like a mckenzie cake. i'm so jealous of yours, i want to take a bite right now!! i'msoo bummed all of my efforts were wasted. :-( ok, ciao for now

Sarah said...

woah, you have four kids!! ethan is looking like quite the young man, watch out ladies ;) and that sophie is such a fashionista! it's so weird to see you with little brunette jane. and the water unwinding?? who would have thought. ELeanor loves playing with water, in fact she's throwing a fit right now because I don't want to deal with her water messes right now. hahaha
awesome king cake!! and sorry to hear about your feral animal, sophie ;) I'm very excited for you that Alex is a thumbsucker. It makes life so much better!!

mama said...

Freddie is going to LOVE the waterboy story!

I was so fascinated that I did a little research and found this: "...children over or under react to stimuli in their environment and have very strong reactions to certain textures. The warm water provides a safe and supported environment, which not only supports the children, but also provides them with hydrostatic pressure that surrounds their body in the water. This pressure actually soothes and calms the children, providing the necessary sensory input they crave."

I always found bathing my babies to be a calming and happy time for them and me. Who knew...it was the hydrostatic pressure!!!!

And about Sophie's most precious voice of all times, you MUST document it before it disappears. It will be sorely missed. I actually teared up a bit when I read that they want to "fix" it. What will life be like without that happy helium high we have come to love and adore?!?!? Say it isn't true!!!! Just teach her sign language and call it a day.

Susi said...

Great post Jessica....it's amazing how such simple things can become so entertaining to kids. That tree is gorgeous!!! Can't wait to see Alex! Love you guys :)

Tasha said...

Love it all!

freddie said...

awwwww i just wanna pick up that lil janie boo and smooch those cheeks! tell super soph i wanna skype soon!

AnnaMarie said...

Hi Jessica! I found your blog through google-stalking you...it's AnnaMarie Ferrell from Aspen Grove in 2010, part of the Ferrell Family that shared your floor. We're the ones with the other Jane. :) I looked you up to let you know that we're going back in 2012. We've requested the 4th of July week as our first choice, so we'll see if we get it. Is your family going again? It'd be fun to see you all again there! You keep a very nice blog. Congratulations on your new little boy! You can click on my name to get to my profile and see our blog, if you want to leave a comment over there! Thanks!

AnnaMarie said...

Thanks for coming over to my blog! I think you can still sign up for 2012. They tell your assignments on April 16, but I understand if it hasn't been put in motion yet! We'll miss you guys! If you don't mind people who don't know you very much reading your blog, I'd love to keep up with you guys. I'm sure I can learn a lot from you so I can be prepared when Katie & Jane get older! (btw, so jealous of Jane's hair--my Jane is still pretty much bald!)

Tasha said...

I have sewing bee questions. Will you email me your phone # please?
Thanks,
Tasha

Messimoo said...

Sooooooooooooo, I haven't read blogs in a LONG time, shame on me, having five does that though...ANYWAY, I saw you are having a BOY!!!! YAYAYYAYYA! congrats lady!