Wednesday, March 23, 2011

Popcorn Popping on the Apricot Tree

So last week was Spring Break, and while the first couple of days just about broke me, on the third day we finally hit our stride! Unfortunately this was the last truly Springy day of our "Break."

(a tree in our front yard -- it really does look like popcorn popping, don't you think??)




Since I had seen that the weather was going to take a turn for the worse, I decided to seize the day and check out the Botanical Gardens with the kiddies for a little field trip of sorts. Which was awesome because it was totally and completely free! (As long as you don't factor in the money I was forced to spend at the gift shop on the way out because apparently I promised the kids if they were good they could pick something out). The day was GORGEOUS, the grounds BEAUTIFUL, and the kids were FAR more receptive to the outing than I ever could have imagined. Especially considering there wasn't really anything for them to do there except for looking at trees and flowers. But I'll take it!








Sophie has such an interesting fashion sense. And just so know -- that hat she's wearing was initially brought as a handbag of sorts for her to hold her snack and juice box in. Hahahahaha. Good thing it came in handy as a HAT to shield her eyes from the sun.





And that's about it. We actually spent a couple of hours wandering around the Gardens before heading for home (via the Gift Shop, of course). And then I decided to continue my streak of being a "fun" mom and grabbed McDonald's for the kids for lunch. I think this day was possibly the best out of the week. Like I said, days 1 and 2 were rocky, and then I foolishly rendered myself incapacitated that very night by falling asleep in my contacts. Aaaaaahhhhh! My enforced glasses wearing and the 30 degree temperature drop overnight -- replete with SNOW -- pretty much ruined the last couple of days of Spring Break. Oh well.



And now for some random pictures and stories:

Up first -- Jane. She is so hilarious. She loves to try and be like the big kids and one of her favorite things to do is put on Sophie's back pack and pretend that she is going to school. Hahahaha. It is so hilarious to watch her wave goodbye and try to get out the door so she can make it to the bus -- which is one word she can actually (kind of) say. Here she is even more decked out when she found Grace's hat and coat by the fireplace one night. How adorable is that little face?? I just love her.




And then there's the water boy. We've been experiencing a LOT of issues with number one son. He's very spirited for one thing, but after a report card conference with his teacher a few weeks I ago, I came to a startling clear conclusion. After seeing his teacher's complete shock when I mentioned some of the issues we were having at home, and hearing her rave about how well-behaved he is at school and what a model child he is, I came to the realization that Ethan must be so worn out by the end of the day after being on his best, most perfect behavior that he can't help his deconstruction at the end of the day once he's home. All those suppressed impulses and frustrations and emotions just come hurtling out of him as soon as he is back in familiar company.

After hearing Ethan and Grace talk a lot about "sensory breaks" that some kids at school need to take, I decided that perhaps taking a little break of his own would help Ethan to stay out of the red zone once he's home. After talking it over with him (and doing a little brushing up on my "Raising Your Spirited Child" book), we decided on some things he could do to help diffuse his intensity and frustrations whenever he starts to feel himself melt down. Play dough was one option, but the funniest one to me was the following:





Playing with water. Never mind that it was freezing outside on the back porch -- this is how Ethan needed to unwind. Hahaha. After gearing myself up for a huge battle when he first begged to take the water outside, I decided it just wasn't worth it. I could let him melt down and not let the matter rest for HOURS on end, OR I could simply cave in and let him do what he wanted to do. In the end I figured if he didn't care about getting wet and cold, why should I?

He literally went from major freak out to happy-as-a-clam in a matter of minutes as he filled container after container with hot water and then brought them outside to play with. I have no idea what he was even doing, but when I happened to glance outside and saw the above picture I literally laughed out loud watching him swirl the steam all around with his hands. Hilarious, I tell you. Hilarious.


At the beginning of the month I made my first ever attempt at a King Cake for Mardi Gras. This one is modeled after my very favorite kind of king cake from Mackenzie's Bakery which has been closed for a few years now. :( After doing a lot of googling I determined that this particular kind of cake was made with a brioche bread for the base. I found a recipe online and whipped it up. I do have to say that making the brioche is far too time-consuming and complicated to attempt making more than once a year. BUT, the taste was almost spot-on for the King Cake. Unfortunately, all that beautiful sugar on top didn't really stick very well as I was cutting the pieces, so I'm not sure how they used to do that at the bakery. Perhaps by next year I'll be up for giving it another go and figuring out how to make it work.



And finally -- just so we're filled in on ALL members of the family. Grace is currently on Round 3 of strep throat this year. So, if it doesn't get cleared up this time around, the doctor says he'll order a tonsillectomy. In my opinion, the sooner those things are out the better. They're HUGE and I've always been kind of worried about her having sleep apnea or something.

Also, Sophie is currently in the process of being screened by the school district's special services for speech therapy. Apparently, when I took Sophie in for her 4 year check-up the doctor was a bit concerned -- for her age, he said, a complete stranger should be able to understand at least 90% of what she is saying. After taking her to an initial evaluation at the Early Childhood Center for the school district (which could have been a whole separate post on its own -- what with me scheduling it right during nap time and then not finding a sitter for Jane and foolishly thinking she'd fall asleep in the car on the way there and then I could transfer her to her stroller for the duration of the evaluation) the results were as follows: "She's a delightful girl," the lady wrote on her report. However, the number of sound substitutions she makes while speaking renders her almost "unintelligible" at times. Doesn't that make her sound like a feral animal or something? Hahahaha. I'm clearly only joking about this because I am not at all concerned with her speech at this time. Does she have many a speech impediment? Absolutely. And she sounds like a chipmunk when she speaks, to boot. BUT, if she qualifies for (free) speech therapy through the school district -- and the evaluator apparently can't see why they WOULDN'T qualify her -- then I guess we'll take it.

And finally we'll end with baby Alex(ander). I had my REAL ultrasound this Monday and it's still a boy!!! So that's good. He also appears to be a thumb-sucker, which in my book is GREAT! I will take it! His pregnancy so far reminds me SO much of Grace's that I wasn't that surprised when I saw him trying to suck his thumb and play with his ears on the screen. Grace was the EASIEST baby as a result of those habits and I'm REALLY hoping Alex is the same. Looks-wise, it was really funny because based on his 3D ultrasound pic he reminds me exactly of how Sophie looked in HER 3D pic. I am interested to see what he really looks like once he's here.

And that's that. This isn't much of a post, but there really hasn't been much going on. Just the same old, same old around here. I was going to close with an "After" picture of the tree in our front yard all covered in snow, but blogger is not letting me upload any pictures at all. And that's too bad because I had a really hilarious one of Sophie in one of her get-ups. Oh well. Maybe next time.

Monday, March 14, 2011

Would anybody Bee interested?

Hey everyone. SO, this is not a typical post of mine, BUT I have recently just joined an online quilting bee and it is so much fun that I apparently just can't get enough. Hahahaha. So, I've decided to start another Quilting Bee of my own. (And any suggested names for the group would be welcome!). I know most of my readers are probably not interested in this kind of thing, BUT I know for certain that some of you are the crafty/sew-y/quilt-y type and this might be right up your alley as well. For anyone interested, here is how it will work (and I am basically copying and pasting these instructions from the girl who organized the bee I currently am in):

"The Quilting Bee will be a group of 12 quilters. Each month will be dedicated to one member; during that month, 11 other quilters will work on her block, make it fabulous, and send it back. At the end of a year, each Bee member will have 11 blocks (plus her own) and the motivation to finish piecing her quilt!

The purpose of this Quilting Bee is to have fun, and be creative. Life is crazy and busy; this Quilting Bee is not. Your commitment is one block a month and sending out a fat quarter to each member before it is “your” month. If you’d like to document via Flikr, or your blog, fabulous! We’d love to see the progress!

Once 12 people have agreed to participate, I will organize names, addresses, months, etc. Hopefully we’ll have everything ready to go for an April (or May) start date!


:: what do I do when it’s “my month”? ::

• figure out what main fabric you’d like us to work with and buy 3 yards (cut in 12 FQs—11 for the other members, one for you). If you’d like to send us each a different FQ to work with (or any other combination of fabrics), that’s fun, too!

• send a fat quarter of your choice to each Bee member (and any instructions). If your month is April, for example, make sure you send the FQ to reach everybody by April 1st. That way we’ll all have the full month to work on your fabulous block.

• you are responsible for sending one FQ only—each Bee member will stash bust to complete your block. (PS I will be emailing an informal questionnaire that should accompany your FQ—so we will know if you perhaps abhor mustard yellow (or any other colors and/or patterns) and would not be pleased if we pulled that color from the FQ you send.)

• email to let us know your FQs are on their way!


:: what do I do when it’s not “my month” ::

• email the Bee member whose month it is so she knows you received her fabric.

• plumb the depths of your creativity—and your fabric stash—to complete the block and send it back by the end of the month. Life sometimes gets nuts, so please alert us early if you won’t be able to return your block at the end of the month—hopefully this won’t happen.

• if you want to document your progress and/or the completed block, go for it! If you want it to be a surprise, you might not want to Blog these photos until after the Bee member has received the block you created for her.


:: misc. ::

• it will help protect the FQ (and the completed block) if you put them in a plastic baggie prior to placing in the envelope. Rain, snow, sleet, hail, and other disasters, you know.

• quilting bee blocks has provided some other tips for mailing: http://www.flickr.com/groups/quiltingbeeblocks/discuss/72157621924214728/

That’s it! Let’s have some quilty fun!

*Don’t fret if you’re not a master quilter. Starting with one block is a great way to practice and improve your confidence. If you want to build a practice block out of scrap fabric before cutting into the "official" FQ fabric, that is perfectly fine. Plus, you have a community of quilters at your disposal in our Quilting Bee and all around the internet. Take a peek at this inspiring Oh, Fransson! post--look, some of the most lovely quilt blocks are just squares and 1/4" seams!"

I would just like to add that you can search on Flickr for "quilting bees" or "quilting bee blocks" and find all SORTS of creativity to get ideas from. Please leave a comment below to express your interest in joining this Quilting Bee. There is still room for 8 or 9 more members!

Come on! It will BEE so fun, I promise. Hahahahaha.

Sunday, March 06, 2011

Love at Home

Well, it's been a while but since I'm pregnant I'm not even going to let myself feel guilty for taking so long to post an update on the days of our lives. Hahaha. Since we last met, we've experienced a couple of birthdays, a couple of creative projects for ME, and more than a couple of meltdowns from the children. Hence the title. Love at Home is a concept we have been trying to work very hard on for the last couple of weeks. A combination of factors has contributed to the lack of respect, obedience, and good behavior emanating from my children -- between my morning sickness and the kids' regular sickness (which started with Grace's strep throat and then straggled out to each and every child one after the other with any and all other kinds of sicknesses until finally ending BACK on Grace with another bout of strep throat) there has been a whole lot of TV watching and not a whole lot of responsibility enforcement going on. But now that everyone is finally feeling better (me included!) the buck is stopping here.

As of 2 weeks ago, the kids are now required to do chores BEFORE school (which doesn't start until 9, so they should have MORE than enough time to get it done). If it doesn't get done before school they have to do an extra chore after school as a consequence and they aren't allowed to earn their privilege for the day (3o minutes of computer time or watching a show on TV). The only way to earn a privilege is to do chores. Although of course there have been a few times I've caved and given them more time then they've technically earned. Or even earned at all. Overall, it's been working pretty well. There's only been a couple of days where chores weren't finished before school, and I'm pretty sure that Sophie and Grace hated having to help me fold and put away the SIX loads of laundry after school that day and they'll NEVER let it happen again.

We had a family meeting today after church to try and refocus our efforts which have not gone quite as well during week 2 of our experiment. Aside from a certain first-born child who shall remain nameless, the kids all seemed to be pretty cooperative and willing to try and increase the love in our home for the upcoming week. We asked each child to think of one thing they could do this week to help us have more love and then write it on a piece of paper to hang in their room where they can see it every day. I'm sure you're dying to know what their responses were, so here they are: Ethan --"play together"; Grace -- "this week I will do services" [as in she will do service for different family members]; and Sophie -- "I will be kind and nice to my family." And in case you're wondering what I will be working on this week, here is MY poster message -- "I will use my voice to speak kindly and not yell at the kids." A noble goal indeed.

Anyway, that has been the biggest thing going on in the last couple of weeks of our life. Not all that glamorous or exciting, but hey my life isn't ALWAYS as entertaining and action-packed as it may seem. Hahaha. Here is what else that has been on the docket:


Sophie turned 4!

That little supermuppet. When we last left off, she had been dealt a few consequences for improper scissor usage. Well. Let's just say that she has a problem. Hahahaha. Despite having gathered up and put all scissors out of her reach (or so I thought), she managed to cut 2 different dresses that she was wearing on 2 different days. The first time it happened I sent her to her room for a very extended time out. The second time it happened I sent her up to her room for the whole day and told her she could only come down to eat lunch. I eventually caved and let her come down about half way through nap time, BUT I gave her a final consequence that no amount of tears or begging could make me reconsider. No birthday party for Sophie. I was planning on letting her invite the little girls from her Sunbeam class at church, but to be honest, I was really glad that I had an excuse NOT to throw a full on party. Talk about exhausting. She was more than a bit upset, but after I reassured her that we would still celebrate as a family she quickly got over her misery. And (fingers crossed) has gotten her cutting bug out of her system.

Her birthday was on a Monday so we thought Saturday afternoon would be an easier time for cake and presents. I didn't even bother making a cool cake for her this year. She can't eat it anyway because of her allergies, so I was more than happy when all she wanted was strawberry shortcake (with angel food cake).







On her actual birthday day, I let her pick out these flowers at the grocery store and let her choose her favorite meal for the special day. Sophie scored major brownie points with me when she decided that chicken nuggets and crinkly fries were the ticket. No complaining here. It doesn't get much easier than that! Hahaha.






She wanted me to get a picture of her outfit for the day...


And here she is in her new birthday dress from her Granny...

(Consequently, Sophie has been single-handedly trying to bring back the side ponytail for the last month.)



Love at First Sight
Jane has officially found her first movie love. "The All-New Adventures of Pippi Longstocking." Not to be confused with the "Pippi Longstocking" version from the 60's that we got from the library LAST year. This one is a bit more musical and apparently my kids like musicals. Ethan's first movie obsession as a toddler was "The Sound of Music," Grace's was "Annie," and Sophie's was The Backyardigan's "International Super Spy." Hahahahahaha. Apparently all of my children have slightly addictive personalities. Here is Jane entranced by her favorite freckle-faced red head girl on the portable DVD player that we originally bought for long road trips in the car. The kids have long since brought them in to use in addition to the 2 TVs and DVD players we already have inside the house.


{Side story. So, in the movie the theme song is about Pippi and has a phrase that repeats itself quite a few times and says -- "Pippi Longstocking is coming into your world, a freckle-faced red head girl you oughta know...." All the kids have watched the movie dozens of times at this point and the other day on the way to preschool I was giving Sophie a stern talking to about being kind to everyone in her class. Sophie can be a bit of a bearcat at times and there is a particular boy in her class that for some reason she clashes with all the time. So, as I was telling her for the umpteempth time that she needed to be nice to this boy, she gives me this look of complete indignation and says "Mom! I only like freckle-faced red head GIRLS, not freckle-faced red head BOYS!" What am I going to do with this child??}


A Project or Two

So, since we've moved into our house, the color of our bedroom has driven me crazy. For whatever reason, this particular shade of blue made our bedroom (which is kind of big) feel even more cavelike and not restful at ALL to me. Scott was not nearly as bothered by the color and didn't feel like it was worth the trouble to paint it. But, after 6+ months of being bugged by the color, I finally took matters into my hands and painted it myself. As soon as my 1st trimester was over I started feeling better almost instantaneously and one morning after dropping the kids off at school I decided to seize the day and headed on over to Home Depot where I picked up a couple of gallons of Ralph Lauren's "Antique Bone" (mixed up ever-so-much-more-cheaply in a Behr paint base). I had to break the room up into 2 days of painting -- after all there's only so long that I can paint undisturbed without worrying about what the kids are doing downstairs -- but in the end, the room looks 500 million percent better. Hahahaha. And even Scott agrees.

Before


During


After

SO much better. The first night after the room was painted was the most restful night's sleep I've gotten since we moved here!



A few weeks ago, I came across this group of people doing a "Quilt Along" with a certain pattern that I thought looked really fun. I joined the flicker group (see my sidebar if you're interested or curious), and I ordered a bunch of fabrics that I loved. It was a little bit tricky sewing curved pieces, but in the end it wasn't nearly as difficult as I thought it would be. Here is my progress thus far. All that's left is the actually quilting now:















Our Budding Artist

This past month Grace was chosen with a couple other girls in her class to be part of an Art Show Exhibition at the district High School. There were a few kids' artwork chosen from each grade at the school and it was really fun to go to the reception that was held and see all the art from the other schools in the area. Ethan of course was quite insistent that he should have been chosen as well, but he does have an overripe sense of justice.


Grace and her friends



Grace and her art teacher



And Grace's artwork



Ethan Has a Friend!

Or perhaps a stalker? Evidenced by this note that I found in his backpack the other day after school:

{Ethan, your a nice guy. I like you. Your my budy.}

Signed "Sincerely, Harrison" on the outside. Hahahahaha. I'm just really happy that he's making friends. He can be so cautious and reserved in new groups that I was worried with our move here that it might be a bit difficult for him to find some friends. I think my worries can fade away now that Harrison thinks he's a nice guy. Hahahaha. No for real, though. He has been making more friends and was even invited to go to the children's museum the other day with a different boy from his class. So this is good.



Another Birthday Girl

And now for the most important event of the month! My birthday. Although this year was a bit more low-key than last year's 30th Birthday Extravaganza, it was nonetheless a fun and exciting weekend-long event. My birthday was also on a Monday, so we went out to dinner on the Saturday before and the kids (and Scott) gave me my presents that day! Scott took them all to Costco and let them pick out whatever they thought I wanted. Ethan picked out a cheesecake for me, Grace picked out a Barefoot Contessa cookbook, and Sophie picked out some strawberries and oranges. You know, because that's what I really wanted. Hahahaha. The piece de resistance, though, was the present that Scott managed to track down in the nick of time before closing that night at a Costco on the other side of town -- my raincheck from last year. A Canon Rebel! The T2i was out of stock at the Costco near us, so he thought he'd have to wait until the next week for the next shipment to come in. Right before we were going to leave for dinner, he looked online to see if there were any other stores in the area and if the camera was in stock and there was! I am more than excited about this present and I can't wait to learn how to use it.

My sister Emily sent me the coolest print for my birthday and she has officially become the best gift-giver in the family! Hahahaha.


How cute is this?? When the girls saw it Grace said "That's perfect mom, because you love to read!" Hahaha. I guess they really do know me pretty well.



The most exciting part of my birthday happened on the day itself. I woke up Monday morning and said to myself -- "I want to find out what we're having!" So, even though I wasn't quite 16 weeks at the time and didn't know if it was possible to determine the gender at all yet, I got online to look up ultrasound places in the area. I ended up finding one that was pretty nearby and had an opening for that afternoon. My dad was in town for a brief visit on his way back from visiting my brother in New Orleans for his birthday and he offered to watch the little ones for me if there was anything I wanted to go out and do for my special day. Well, I seized the opportunity and was SO excited to find out that we are having a BOY!!! Although, I think perhaps Ethan was the most excited of all. Luckily, ALL the kids had been wanting a boy (even Sophie had come around in the last couple of weeks) and they were all excited to find out the news. Here is a cute shot the sonographer got of baby Alex touching his toes to his nose. So cute!



And Last but not Least

We have a nursery girl!!! Jane's first day of nursery was last Sunday and it was a hit! Yay!!! It's always a bit of a toss up with my kids as to whether they will do well in nursery or not. Jane seemed to do just fine, so that is awesome. For the next few months at least, I'll be able to enjoy Sunday School and Relief Society without wrestling a child. Unfortunately, Jane has become a little stinker when it comes to posing for pictures and I couldn't get a decent shot of her on her big day. Before church I tried to take a few pictures but she wouldn't look up at me at all, and then later on in the evening I still couldn't get a decent shot. Oh well. At least the moment was captured!






And that's all folks! This is kind of a random blog post, but there you have it. Wish us luck on Project Love at Home...