Wednesday, October 28, 2020

Fresh Courage Take

 

Since I never got around to unveiling our new family theme last month -- and I've got kids asking me why I never blog anymore -- I figured tonight is as good a time as any to put up a post!  Our theme this year is a continuation of last year's.  The inspiration for THAT theme [Gird Up!] came from a line in the second verse of "Come, Come Ye Saints."  THIS school year, we felt really strongly that covering the second half of that line should be our next step.  
"Gird up your loins, fresh courage take "

(Our Wall of Courage)

This year, more than ever, I want to make sure that we are doing everything we can to imprint this mantra in our minds and write it on the fleshy tables of our heart.  As I was researching the concept of courage, I found so many interesting thoughts and ideas.  Perhaps my favorite insight came from a post I found that outlined the etymology of the word "COURAGE" and how that informs our connotation of the word today.  Because I loved it so much, I'm going to copy and paste it here verbatim:
Courage is derived from the Middle English word ‘corage,’ which is the old French equivalent to ‘cuer,’ which comes from the Latin ‘cor,’ all of which mean ‘heart.’ At its very beginnings courage comes from the heart, and even today it still holds that connotation. For hundreds of years it has been believed that the heart contains ones innermost and strongest feelings. Therefore, someone who has courage, or is courageous, developed that from deep within themselves. From feelings and emotions that run to their very core. This is why those that are courageous are nearly impossible to break or hold down. The strength comes from too deep to be easily shaken.   -- Kat Michels

Isn't that beautiful??  This is why I love words SO much.  I like to think that finding and using the exact right word amplifies the power of whatever message is being conveyed.  

For our poster this year, I wanted to incorporate and combine the various symbols of courage I found in my study.  From the color red, to the lions, to the crowns, to the heart -- everything in this coat of arms should project the meaning of courage!  (Or at least I hope that's the case.  Hahaha.)  This message, along with the rest of our "Wall of Courage," will hopefully be seared into our collective pysches by the time the school year is over.  

So there you have it -- Fresh Courage Take!  Each month, we're focusing on a different aspect of courage and sharing stories and examples to go along with it for our Wall.  Last month, "Courage is standing up for what is right" was the focus and this month we're pivoting to "Courage is facing challenges or trials with faith."  I want to close tonight with a family history story I shared with the kids last week about an ancestor of ours who faced extraordinary challenges and trials with faith.  

I found this beautiful painting by Julie Rogers called, "I Asked God's Help" on familysearch.org.  It portrays the following story about my great-great-great-great-grandmother, Ann Rowley.

Ann Jewell Rowley was a member of the infamous Willie Handcart Company of pioneers.  Along with the Martin Handcart Company, these men, women, and children had already traveled all the way from England and were eager to get on with the final leg of their journey to Utah.  The companies left much later in the season than others had and it wasn't long before calamity and misfortune struck in the fall of 1856.  Ann, her children, and fellow travelers were slowed by heavy snow and weighed down with exhaustion, starvation, and exposure to the elements.  The harsh reality of their trek would leave 60-70 Saints buried along the trail before the company was rescued and they finally entered the Salt Lake Valley.  Here is a portion of Ann's story in her own words:

When we were well into the wilderness, we noticed a storm approaching from the southwest.  The terrifying thing was not a storm, but a large herd of buffalo stampeding right past our camp.  Afterward, I thanked the Lord that our lives had been spared, for we all could have been killed.  As it was, we lost 30 head of our best oxen.  They were swept away by the buffalo.  The men hunted for them but had to give it up.  This was the beginning of our great hardships and probably was the cause of most of them, for we had spent valuable time looking for the oxen.  This loss in turn, reduced our meat supply and because there weren't enough cattle to pull the supply wagon, a hundred pounds of flour was placed in each handcart.

Our handcarts were not designed for such heavy loads and we were constantly breaking down.  They had been made of green lumber and were affected by the weather.  Rawhide strips were used to wrap the iron rims to the wheels and the wood would shrink and the rawhide would come loose.  It hurt me to see my children go hungry.  I watched as they cut the loose rawhide from the cart wheels, roasted off the hair and chewed the hide.

There came a time, when there seemed to be no food at all.  Some of the men left to hunt buffalo.  Night was coming and there was no food for the evening meal.  I asked God's help as I always did.  I got on my knees, remembering two hard sea biscuits that were still in my trunk.  They had been left over from the sea voyage, they were not large, and were so hard, they couldn't be broken.  Surely that was not enough to feed 8 people, but 5 loaves and 2 fishes were not enough to feed 5000 people either, but through a miracle, Jesus had done it.  So, with God's help, nothing is impossible.  I found the biscuits and put them in a Dutch oven and covered them with water and asked for God's blessing, then I put the lid on the pan and set it on the coals.  When I took off the lid a little later, I found the pan filled with food.  I kneeled with my family and thanked God for his goodness.  That night my family had sufficient food.   

I am grateful for the legacy of faith and courage that I've been blessed with -- not just from my great-great-great-great-grandmother, but from men and women of strength in every generation on both sides of my family tree.  I hope that each of us in this household can take courage from their examples and face the world and the future with faith and hope.



 

 

Tuesday, October 13, 2020

It's the Most Wonderful Time of the Year

Not to be cliche, but -- to quote Anne of Green Gables -- I'm so glad I live in a world where there are Octobers!  Fall is my favorite time of year and this year is no exception.  Everyone is finally all better, the kids are back in school, and the weather is no longer oppressively humid and hot.  All in all, life is GOOD!

(Favorite quote of the week from Isaac -- 
ME: I love you to the moon and back times infinity!
ISAAC: Infinity is not a number, mom.
ME: Oh yeah?  What is it then?
ISAAC {thinking really hard, trying to remember what it is that he always hears me say}: It's a concept.
Hahahahahahahahahaha.)


To kick off our Octoberfest (not to be confused with Germany's Oktoberfest -- we'll be eschewing the dirndls and steins of beer) we went to our local "Pumpkin Patch" that's not really a pumpkin patch.  Hahaha.  Already-picked-pumpkins, conveniently located, and aesthetically arranged suited our needs just fine.  The kids were only supposed to pick out one pumpkin each, but we got a little carried away.  




Our fall fest continued into the first weekend of October, as we were able enjoy General Conference at home with our traditional Sunday morning breakfast feast sweetening up the deal.  Many cinnamon rolls and orange rolls were consumed alongside the pleasing word of God and it was an enjoyable experience all around.  Even for Maxwell.  What dog wouldn't like a few pieces of bacon snuck their way?  Hahaha.

(It's funny -- the cinnamon rolls always go first, but the orange rolls are just as good if not better in my book.)

(The only real "must have" items for our Conference breakfast are cinnamon rolls and buttermilk syrup.)

The girls created lots of Halloween decorations for the house while watching the Sunday sessions, and I think we're all excited for the beginning of the whole holiday season.  Surely 2020 will wind down nice and easy for us, right?  Hahahahahahaha.  J/K.  I'm sure that won't be the case, but we won't let that stop us from enjoying our traditions.  :)





Other than that, we're officially back into a routine now that "back-to-school" 2.0 has enabled Grace, Sophie, Jane, and Alex to head back to their actual school buildings post-quarantine.  Sophie was finally able to collect her dance team uniform  last week and cheered/danced at her first football game on Thursday.  Scott took Grace and Jane along for the adventure and I know they enjoyed a semi-return to normalcy as they watched on the sidelines.



Meanwhile, Ethan has been hard at work on college applications and was more than a bit surprised to receive an acceptance from Utah State University the day after submitting the application.  {Literally.}  His ultimate hope, though, is to get into BYU.  {Receiving a scholarship would be pretty sweet as well.}  He's still working on THOSE essays, but I think the deadline isn't for another month or two.  Knowing Ethan, I'm sure it will be turned in well before it's officially due.  :)

I really hope that this week we'll be able to enforce a viable virtual school schedule for Alex and Jane on the days that they're home, but I'm not going to hold my breath.  We're still going with a hard copy "to do" list for both of them with their daily assignments, but I'd really love to transition from ME writing it all out for them everyday, to THEM adopting these organizational skills and doing it for themselves.  A mother can always dream.

Speaking of which, I'm LIVING the dream now that I've got a couple of days a week of complete and total peace and quiet around the house while everyone is at school!  Hahahaha.  In all seriousness, though, it's awesome.  I've been keeping myself busy over the last month studying up on government and politics -- and everything in between -- and it's been so fascinating.   I'm currently studying economics and it is hands-down my favorite thing I've researched thus far.  Not even joking.  I kind of love it.  And if I had a more secure foundational knowledge of advanced math, I'd consider going back to school and studying it for real!  Hahaha.  For now, I'm just trying to educate myself one topic at a time and tell anyone else who is willing to listen all about it.  As for the poor victims who are in my most immediate path here at home, I'd have to say that Alex is the one whose interest has been piqued the most by my studies -- if only in the sense that he's constantly questioning why I'm trying to learn all this stuff.  Hahahaha.  

(When you're trying to explain a recession to a 9 year old.  Hahahahahahahahaha.)

I think that just about sums up the last few weeks!  I'm looking forward to more lovely weather in the future and I'm keeping my fingers crossed that I can get back up to speed (pun intended) on my half marathon training that was derailed by the coronavirus.  Wish me luck!

(I finished my virtual Flying Pig 10K on Saturday.  It was rough after not having really run for a couple of weeks.)

(My favorite sight -- the kids playing together without fighting.  Fall does wonders for incentivizing jumping on the trampoline.)